BE YOURSELF. NO ONE IS BETTER THAN YOU!

" MOM! I WANNA CUT MY HAIR SHORT." MIA SAID AS SHE ENTERED THE HOUSE.

"BUT WHY?", MRS.ARJUN ASKED.

" EVERYONE  MAKES FUN OF ME MA! THEY ARE CALLING ME 'SMALL TOWN GIRL' ".

AT SOME POINT IN OUR LIVES WE ALL HAVE EXPERIENCED CRITICISM AND WE ALL ARE GUILTY OF TRYING TO CHANGE WHO WE ARE JUST FOR THE SAKE OF THE SOCIETY AND GOT FED UP WITH IT. THAT IS PROBABLY WHY YOU ENDED READING MY BLOG! I AM NOT SOME KIND OF PHYCOLOGICAL EXPERT OR ANYTHING BUT I HAVE GONE THROUGH THE SAME AND REALIZED THINGS THAT ACTUALLY CHANGED MY LIFE. 

A YEAR BACK I USED TO BE SO WORRIED AND CONCERNED ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK. EVEN THE SLIGHTEST COMMENT FROM SOMEONE WOULD RUIN MY ENTIRE DAY. I WOULD GET SO EMBARRESED WHEN SOMETHING GOES WRONG AND I USED TO CRY FOR DAYS OVERTHINKING IT. I BECAME A TOOL OF THE SOCIETY. BUT IN TURN, I ONLY GOT MORE AND MORE ACCUSED AND I REFUSED TO FACE THE WORLD.

THEN I REALISED ALL THOSE PEOPLE WHO SPOKE ABOUT ME AND PUT ME THROUGH ALL THIS WHERE LIVING JUST AS USUAL AND ME, SOMEONE WHO IS NOT GUILTY OF ANYTHING THEY ACCUSED ME FOR, FORGOT THAT I HAD A LIFE. SLOWLY I STARTED IGNORING THEM. AT THE BEGINING IT WAS NOT EASY, IT STILL HURT. BUT EVENTUALLY,  IT DINT MATTER ANYMORE.

AS MORE AND MORE I IGNORED THEM THE HAPPIER I BECAME. I STARTED DOING THINGS THAT MATTERED TO ME AND DINT CARE ABOUT THEM ANYMORE. I LEARNED HOW TO RIDE A MOTORCYCLE, I CUT MY HAIR REALLY SHORT, STARTED FOCUSING ON THOSE WHO REALLY CARED. I KNOW IT IS NOT THAT EASY TO JUST START IGNORING THEM ALL OF A SUDDEN AND START A LIFE. IT WILL TAKE TIME BUT EVENTUALLY YOU WILL LIVE A MUCH MORE HAPPY LIFE. 

ALL THOSE WHO SPEAK BEHIND YOUR BACK ARE EITHER JEALOUS OF YOU OR THEY ARE JUST AFRAID THAT YOU MIGHT BEAT THEM ONE DAY. NO ONE REALLY HATES YOU FOR NO REASON SEE! THEY ARE ALL JUST A PIECE OF SHIT BECAUSE THEY ONLY WORK ON YOU BACK. SO DONT WORRY ABOUT WHAT OTHERS THINK AND START WORRYING ABOUT WHAT YOU REALLY THINK. YOU GOT THIS!

YOU ARE GOING TO ROCK!

WITH LOTS LOVE,

CANT CONTROL <3

(THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR READING MY BLOG. IF YOU LIKED IT PLEASE KEEP SUPPORTING ME. IT IS MY NEW JOURNEY AFTERALL. )